If you wish to stay in touch, considering joining the sex positive book club I am organizing for the summer. You can email me directly at dominvontana[at]gmail.com. I’ll see you next fall.

….humiliation is a very personal type of play that is best reserved for LTR D/s relationships.

I wiped my running nose with one hand and with my other hand pointed at the uterus my torso was toppled forward over still crying. “I want to quit birth control. I want to stop taking the pills. It makes me feel numb. I feel like there’s a cement wall between my top half and my bottom half and I don’t know what’s going on down there.”

Occasionally, while bumping through the usual sexual scenarios online, I come across something that down right disturbs me and inevitably turns me on at the same time.

Personal lubricants are an essential but often misunderstood aspect of the sexual experience. Until this year I always thought of lube as something I needed for the dungeon, not for my bedroom. Working at Lotus Blooms has changed all that. Now I understand that using lube is normal and I’m glad to know there are a variety of types of lubes to choose from, so many in fact that I think an explanation is in order. Lubes add variety to love making and give couples more choices about how they want to be together.