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Spanking is a popular adult sport because it combines two types of common BDSM play, impact and sensation play, and places them across your most sensitive, erotic spots.

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I’ve recently decided to do it bare. I know it’s dangerous, very risky, but I just can’t resist the temptation any longer. Bare and unprotected, it’s so much sexier. It slides in and out so much smoother. It simply feels the way it’s supposed to feel. I’m going bare and I’m never turning back.

You might find it shocking that I’m being so open and honest about such a personal and controversial opinion in a public forum. But I’m not taking about sex. I’m talking about my iPhone.

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This fun game will help keep you and your partner cool during the sweltering heat of summer

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….humiliation is a very personal type of play that is best reserved for LTR D/s relationships.

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I wiped my running nose with one hand and with my other hand pointed at the uterus my torso was toppled forward over still crying. “I want to quit birth control. I want to stop taking the pills. It makes me feel numb. I feel like there’s a cement wall between my top half and my bottom half and I don’t know what’s going on down there.”

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Here on TNG I complain. A lot. I complain with the frequency and intensity of a colicky infant watching an episode of Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia during a Columbia Heights 4th of July. So I try to scale back. Be positive. Write about things I like. Music, TV, Frank Kameny. But I can’t always do it. Some things in this world are abominations, brown smears down the fresh white sheets of gay life, and I can’t keep my mouth shut about them.

Silicone-based lube is one of those things.

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Occasionally, while bumping through the usual sexual scenarios online, I come across something that down right disturbs me and inevitably turns me on at the same time.

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This weekend I’ll step outside the kinky bubble I’ve been living in and attend my first feminist conference. I’ll be at Momentum: Making Waves in Sexuality, Feminism and Relationships in Silver Spring and I’ll be in good company. I plan to attend the HIPS happy hour on Saturday, after I hear Tristan Taormino speak for the first time. As a female dominant, I’ve always been more interested in giving than receiving in the ass department. Apparently Tristan is the ass queen.

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I certainly wouldn’t mind competing with the gays to take back my right to be a slut if it meant being a normal person who collects vagina photos on my cell phone. I am still curious to find out how developing applications and dating sites for lesbians might change our losing battle with gay men for their stereotypical reign as the classiest sluts. But until my Scissr debuts, I will just have to settle for meeting girls the old fashion lesbian way — through my exes!

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What makes Saturday’s #22 Leather Flea and Play a stand-out event is the number of handmade goods and local artisans. Whether you want a custom fitted leather strap-on or a flogger with a carved wooden handle, chances are you can find it here. That’s why I can’t stand to see fetish gear in plastic boxes; I will walk into this place on Saturday and all I will smell is leather and all I’ll see are high heels and shiny vinyl. I’ll be over the edge before I even touch the first piece.