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	<title>Comments on: The Adventures of the Boi Wonder: The Dread of the Roster Roll-Call</title>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
		<link>http://thenewgay.net/2010/01/the-dread-of-the-roster-roll-call.html#comment-24784</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Apr 2010 19:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>urrrrr..

dude, trust me. I&#039;m in the exact same boat as you on that one. I suppose the only difference is that despite being in a big university, it&#039;s kinda hard to miss me. A lot of people know me since I dress crazy and usually have weird shades of hair color, and it&#039;s a little more difficult to pass off as male when people know me in class by my female birth name. 

i chickened out too when my teacher called out my name, and the most i could say was to call me by my last name instead. /facedesk./ there&#039;s only a small number of people who know/have known since i was younger, but there&#039;s a lot of people in my past who go to my school, whose words will spread like wildfire [and already somewhat has] if i try to do much else in means of transitioning from female. 

it&#039;s something i&#039;m taking slowly, and the more i progress through college and the more i try to gain confidence in what i&#039;m trying to accomplish, it&#039;s getting a little easier to talk out and say certain things, like my name being corrected, or correcting pronouns. 

all i can really suggest is go gradually with it; don&#039;t try to push yourself too hard into correcting others if you&#039;re really not feeling it, and don&#039;t be afraid to give the teacher a nickname for yourself. they should be understanding enough.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>urrrrr..</p>
<p>dude, trust me. I&#8217;m in the exact same boat as you on that one. I suppose the only difference is that despite being in a big university, it&#8217;s kinda hard to miss me. A lot of people know me since I dress crazy and usually have weird shades of hair color, and it&#8217;s a little more difficult to pass off as male when people know me in class by my female birth name. </p>
<p>i chickened out too when my teacher called out my name, and the most i could say was to call me by my last name instead. /facedesk./ there&#8217;s only a small number of people who know/have known since i was younger, but there&#8217;s a lot of people in my past who go to my school, whose words will spread like wildfire [and already somewhat has] if i try to do much else in means of transitioning from female. </p>
<p>it&#8217;s something i&#8217;m taking slowly, and the more i progress through college and the more i try to gain confidence in what i&#8217;m trying to accomplish, it&#8217;s getting a little easier to talk out and say certain things, like my name being corrected, or correcting pronouns. </p>
<p>all i can really suggest is go gradually with it; don&#8217;t try to push yourself too hard into correcting others if you&#8217;re really not feeling it, and don&#8217;t be afraid to give the teacher a nickname for yourself. they should be understanding enough.</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
		<link>http://thenewgay.net/2010/01/the-dread-of-the-roster-roll-call.html#comment-23642</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 20:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Levi, thanks for posting this blog.  I&#039;m in a similar boat so it was good just to hear that there is someone else out there who understands.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Levi, thanks for posting this blog.  I&#8217;m in a similar boat so it was good just to hear that there is someone else out there who understands.</p>
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		<title>By: Lori @Table_4_7</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori @Table_4_7</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a community college instructor myself, and I recommend that you email your instructors prior to the first day of classes if you&#039;d like to be called something other than what is on the roster.  You can disclose as much or as little as you like in the email, but this allows you to avoid a possibly awkward face-to-face encounter.  Just something as simple as &quot;Hi.  My name is (name), but I prefer to be called Levi.  If it&#039;s not too much trouble, could you make a note of this on your roster so that my privacy can be maintained?&quot;  Mentioning your privacy should be helpful, as we are bound by FERPA law.  Nothing that you don&#039;t want disclosed should be disclosed in class, including your gender identity.  Best of luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a community college instructor myself, and I recommend that you email your instructors prior to the first day of classes if you&#8217;d like to be called something other than what is on the roster.  You can disclose as much or as little as you like in the email, but this allows you to avoid a possibly awkward face-to-face encounter.  Just something as simple as &#8220;Hi.  My name is (name), but I prefer to be called Levi.  If it&#8217;s not too much trouble, could you make a note of this on your roster so that my privacy can be maintained?&#8221;  Mentioning your privacy should be helpful, as we are bound by FERPA law.  Nothing that you don&#8217;t want disclosed should be disclosed in class, including your gender identity.  Best of luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew D</title>
		<link>http://thenewgay.net/2010/01/the-dread-of-the-roster-roll-call.html#comment-21965</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 15:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i can&#039;t even begin to fully understand your personal struggles as mine were nowhere near as complicated. I can only say that at some point you decide how much of your reality everyone around you needs to be included in. You also decide your own level of exposure/disclosure as you become comfortable with it. I imagine in your case you will always have to explain things to people and at some point this will be common place and you won&#039;t think twice about it. Be brave and go at your own pace! Don&#039;t make yourself vulnerable if you don&#039;t feel it&#039;s necessary and surround yourself with close friends who have your back and support you fully!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i can&#8217;t even begin to fully understand your personal struggles as mine were nowhere near as complicated. I can only say that at some point you decide how much of your reality everyone around you needs to be included in. You also decide your own level of exposure/disclosure as you become comfortable with it. I imagine in your case you will always have to explain things to people and at some point this will be common place and you won&#8217;t think twice about it. Be brave and go at your own pace! Don&#8217;t make yourself vulnerable if you don&#8217;t feel it&#8217;s necessary and surround yourself with close friends who have your back and support you fully!</p>
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