Comments on: Not Your Average Prom Queen: How Do You…’Do It’? http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html For Everyone Over the Rainbow Wed, 08 Feb 2012 01:03:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: zack http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20835 zack Fri, 18 Dec 2009 22:34:53 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20835 Kyle, "clean out the basement" is the best euphemism ever. Kyle, “clean out the basement” is the best euphemism ever.

]]> By: Kyle http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20831 Kyle Fri, 18 Dec 2009 20:51:00 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20831 The absolute weirdest question I got along these lines dealt not with the act itself, but rather the preparation. I was metroing home from work and sitting with my boyfriend's brother's boyfriend, when the man sitting in front of us, clealy a young gay man himself, turned around and asked us if he could get some advice from us. He then proceded to ask us how, to put it metaphorically, one would clean out the basement (my metaphor, not his, btw). And right there on the metro we both told him. The absolute weirdest question I got along these lines dealt not with the act itself, but rather the preparation. I was metroing home from work and sitting with my boyfriend’s brother’s boyfriend, when the man sitting in front of us, clealy a young gay man himself, turned around and asked us if he could get some advice from us. He then proceded to ask us how, to put it metaphorically, one would clean out the basement (my metaphor, not his, btw). And right there on the metro we both told him.

]]> By: heidi http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20829 heidi Fri, 18 Dec 2009 19:57:12 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20829 i'm not really sure i've ever been asked..... i’m not really sure i’ve ever been asked…..

]]> By: Levi http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20815 Levi Fri, 18 Dec 2009 05:00:07 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20815 This reminds me of the scene in Chasing Amy when Banky gets all confused about how two women can "fuck" each other and Alyssa explains that "fucking" isn't all about penetration and penises. Alyssa: Let me ask you a question. Can men fuck each other? Banky Edwards: What, are you asking for my permission? Alyssa: In your estimation. Banky Edwards: Sure. Alyssa: So, for you, to fuck is to penetrate. You're used to the more traditional definition. You inside some girl you duped, jackhammering away, not noticing that bored look in her eyes. Banky Edwards: Hey, I always notice that bored look in their eyes, alright? Alyssa: Fucking is not limited to penetration, Banky. For me it describes any sex, when it's not totally about love. I don't love Kim, but I'll fuck her. I'm sure you don't love every girl you sleep with. Banky Edwards: Some of them I downright loathe. This reminds me of the scene in Chasing Amy when Banky gets all confused about how two women can “fuck” each other and Alyssa explains that “fucking” isn’t all about penetration and penises.

Alyssa: Let me ask you a question. Can men fuck each other?
Banky Edwards: What, are you asking for my permission?
Alyssa: In your estimation.
Banky Edwards: Sure.
Alyssa: So, for you, to fuck is to penetrate. You’re used to the more traditional definition. You inside some girl you duped, jackhammering away, not noticing that bored look in her eyes.
Banky Edwards: Hey, I always notice that bored look in their eyes, alright?
Alyssa: Fucking is not limited to penetration, Banky. For me it describes any sex, when it’s not totally about love. I don’t love Kim, but I’ll fuck her. I’m sure you don’t love every girl you sleep with.
Banky Edwards: Some of them I downright loathe.

]]> By: Drew http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20809 Drew Thu, 17 Dec 2009 23:06:52 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20809 True story: "I need to say that it is none of your business how two people have sex – but if we are forced to consider the topic, perhaps we should widen our definitions a little." I do think it's important, however, for people who are going to engage in any sort of sexual relationship, to define sex (however broadly or narrowly the individual's define it.) Great post, Jean. True story: “I need to say that it is none of your business how two people have sex – but if we are forced to consider the topic, perhaps we should widen our definitions a little.”

I do think it’s important, however, for people who are going to engage in any sort of sexual relationship, to define sex (however broadly or narrowly the individual’s define it.)

Great post, Jean.

]]> By: zack http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20799 zack Thu, 17 Dec 2009 20:27:41 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20799 OH my god, the Robert Crown Center. I had suppressed those memories. OH my god, the Robert Crown Center. I had suppressed those memories.

]]> By: Rain http://thenewgay.net/2009/12/how-do-you-do-it.html#comment-20798 Rain Thu, 17 Dec 2009 19:31:29 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=19115#comment-20798 The Robert Crown Center!!!! A Chicagoland area classic. "To some extent, the use of a silicone device really just emphasizes that point that for some women the penis that some men think all chicks want is simply a conveniently shaped object easily manufactured and purchased – not a gift from God." Love it. The Robert Crown Center!!!! A Chicagoland area classic.

“To some extent, the use of a silicone device really just emphasizes that point that for some women the penis that some men think all chicks want is simply a conveniently shaped object easily manufactured and purchased – not a gift from God.” Love it.

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