Comments on: In The Ladies' Room: The Wedding Problem http://thenewgay.net/2009/11/the-wedding-problem.html For Everyone Over the Rainbow Wed, 08 Feb 2012 01:03:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Jean http://thenewgay.net/2009/11/the-wedding-problem.html#comment-17235 Jean Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:26:31 +0000 http://thenewgay.net/?p=17311#comment-17235 Good post! I've written on this subject as well, but for me it was about demonstrating seriousness and commitment by asking my girl to dance at a family wedding. Being proud of US. Now, in no way was that easy, or even NOT awkward, and it would really depend on whose wedding it was if it is even something to attempt. I also totally hear you about not wanting to upstage the bridal couple, or make a scene -- but it also seems like we owe it to ourselves to stop acting like we are different or that attention should be called to our relationships. Maybe not at an old people-super religious wedding - but at any other one, I say give it a go! PS: In my monumental gay at a wedding dance moment, we danced to Etta James. :) Good post! I’ve written on this subject as well, but for me it was about demonstrating seriousness and commitment by asking my girl to dance at a family wedding. Being proud of US. Now, in no way was that easy, or even NOT awkward, and it would really depend on whose wedding it was if it is even something to attempt. I also totally hear you about not wanting to upstage the bridal couple, or make a scene — but it also seems like we owe it to ourselves to stop acting like we are different or that attention should be called to our relationships. Maybe not at an old people-super religious wedding – but at any other one, I say give it a go!

PS: In my monumental gay at a wedding dance moment, we danced to Etta James. :)

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