it’s tough to be comfortable and confident with yourself, when the most basic of human emotional needs is to have a community. if you feel safe and happy with your friends then you don’t need to justify your preferences. if you love your boyfriend then, then congratulations for finding a healthy relationship with a human being. :)

misch misch (inside joke for chris)

Are you really that bothered that no one wanted to engage in a conversation about your boyfriend’s thoughts on the lesbian sex in the L Word? I think it has less to do with you having a boyfriend than a bunch of queer women not really caring what a man, any man, would have to say on that topic.

I also doubt your friends think of you as less queer. They probably don’t even think about your queerness at all. If you are happy, then I am sure your friends are happy for you. It sounds like you are just not comfortable in your own skin and need to stop projecting that on the community.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.

that said, this just proves that being queer doesn’t really determine much besides cocksucking or carpetmunching (or both…though i think you bisexuals are fuckin’ sick). a lot of queers (most of?) are just as dogmatic and narrow about sex and gender as a lot of (most of?) “normal” people are.

though i think you should give your friends a pass. they’re you’re friends right? even if they don’t see things the same way as you. and they might not even care. don’t read too much into it.